cuando te encontras cara a cara con el pasado,
te das cuenta de que no era tan perfecto como te acordabas,
y de que tal vez, solo tal vez, no tenés tantas ganas de volver atrás...
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At the end of the day faith is a funny thing. It turns up when you don't really expect it. Its like one day you realize that the fairy tale may be slightly different than you dreamed. The castle, well, it may not be a castle. And its not so important happy ever after, just that its happy right now. See once in a while, once in a blue moon, people will surprise you , and once in a while people may even take your breath away.
Maybe we like the pain. Maybe we're wired that way. Because without it, I don't know; maybe we just wouldn't feel real. What's that saying? Why do I keep hitting myself with a hammer? Because it feels so good when I stop.
I wish there were a rulebook for intimacy. Some kind of guide to tell you when you've crossed the line. It would be nice if you could see it coming, and I don't know how you fit it on a map. You take it where you can get it, and keep it as long as you can. As for rules, maybe there are none. Maybe the rules of intimacy are something we have to define for ourselves How do you know how much is too much? Too much too soon. Too much information. Too much fun. Too much love, or too much to ask of someone? When is it all just too much for us to bear? In general, lines are there for a reason. For security, for clarity. If you choose to cross the line, you pretty much do so at your own risk. So why is it that the bigger the line, the greater the temptation to cross it? We cant help ourselves. When we see a line we want to cross it. Maybe it’s the thrill of the unfamiliar, a sort of personal dare. The only problem is once that you’ve crossed, it’s almost impossible to go back. But, if you do manage to make it back across the line, you find safety in numbers. No matter how hard we try to ignore or deny it, eventually the lies fall away, like it or not. But here's the truth about the truth. It hurts. So we lie.
Communication. It's the first thing we really learn in life. The funny thing is, once we grow up, learn our words and really start talking, the harder it becomes to know what to say. Or how to ask for what we really need. At the end of the day, there are some things you just can't help but talk about. Some things we just don't want to hear, and some things we say because we can't be silent any longer. Some things are more than what you say. They're what you do. Some things you say because you have no other choice. Some things you keep to yourself. And not too often, but every now and then, some things simply speak for themselves.
In general, lines are there for a reason: for security, for clarity. If you choose to cross the line, you pretty much do so at your own risk. So why is it, that the bigger the line, the greater the temptation to cross it? We can’t help ourselves. We see a line, we want to cross it. Maybe it’s the thrill of trading the familiar for the unfamiliar. A sort of personal dare. Only problem is, once you’ve crossed it’s almost impossible to go back. But if you do manage to make it back across that line you find safety in numbers Some say there’s just some kind of sixth sense, when the great beyond is headed for you, you feel it coming. Whatever it is, it's creepy. Because if you know, what do you do about it? Forget about the fact that you're scared out of your mind. If you knew this was your last day on earth, how would you want to spend it? Life is not a spectator sport. Win, lose, or draw, the game is on. So go ahead... argue with the ref, change the rules, cheat a little, take a break and tend to your wounds. But play. Play. Play hard, play fast... play loose and free. Play as if there's no tomorrow. Okay, so it's not whether you win or lose, it's how you play the game... right? A wise man once said – “You can have anything in life if you’re willing to sacrifice everything else for it.” What he meant is nothing comes without a price. So before you go into battle, you better decide how much you’re willing to lose. Too often going after what feels good means letting go of what you know is right. And letting someone in means abandoning the walls you’ve spent a lifetime building. Of course the toughest sacrifices are the ones we don’t see coming. When we don’t have time to come up with a strategy to pick sides….or to measure the potential loss. When that happens, when the battle chooses us, and not the other way around, that’s when the sacrifice can turn out to be more than we can bear.
p.d.: mi mejor amiga (L)
Soy aquella que perdió eso que nunca tuvo... Y si sangro, sangro sabiendo que a vos no te importa...
meredith grey dice:
At some point you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out; they fence you in. Life is messy, that's how we're made. So you can waste your life drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines that are way too dangerous to cross. Here's what I know, If you're willing to take a chance, the view from the other side is spectacular.
Responsibility, it really does suck. Unfortunately, once you get past the age of braces and training bras, responsibility doesn't go away. It can't be avoided. Either someone makes us face it or we suffer the consequences. And still adulthood has it perks. I mean the shoes, the sex, the no parents anywhere telling you what to do. That's, pretty damn good.
A couple of hundred years ago, Benjamin Franklin shared with the world the secret of his success. “Never leave that till tomorrow,” he said, “Which you can do today.” This is the man who discovered electricity. You’d think more of us would listen to what he had to say. I don’t know why we put things off, but if I had to guess, I’d say it has a lot to do with fear. Fear of failure. Fear of pain. Fear of rejection. Sometimes the fear is just of making a decision, because what if you’re wrong? What if you make a mistake you can’t undo? Whatever it is we're afraid of, one thing holds true: that by the time the pain of not doing the thing gets worse than the fear of doing it, it can feel like we're carrying around a giant tumor...
That knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping. And that even the biggest failure, even the worst most intractable mistake beats the hell out of never trying.
I have an aunt who whenever she poured anything for you she would say "Say when!" My aunt would say "Say when!" and of course, we never did. We don't say when because there's something about the possibility, of more. More tequila, more love, more anything. More is better.
Maybe we're not supposed to be happy. Maybe gratitude has nothing to do with joy. Maybe being grateful means recognizing what you have for what it is. Appreciating small victories. Admiring the struggle it takes simply to be human. Maybe we're thankful for the familiar things we know. And maybe we're thankful for the things we'll never know. At the end of the day, the fact that we have the courage to still be standing is reason enough to celebrate
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no sé si vale xq me lo dio http://confessionsofaspider.blogspot.com/
p.d.: mi mejor amiga (L)
de parte de http://markesamerteuil.blogspot.com/
23 delirios ajenos:
Gran paso, sí, señora, aunque no descartes que de vez en cuanto te vuelva a asaltar alguna duda.
romper esa perfeccion tal vez sea lo mejor que te pase, tal vez lo peor.
Muy bien.. tomate todo el tiempo que quieras para pensar en vos y me alegro si queres seguir para adelante.. aunq algunas veces hay que retroceder un poquito para avanzar mas.. Lo q decidas ya te apoyo!
Besos..
no nos podemos meter dos veces en el mismo río, decía Heráclito.
Para qué tratar de revivir. No se puede. Se pueden otras cosas, no las de antes. No hay que entrar en el estúpido círculo de los nostálgicos.
Si pudiese volver el tiempo atrás, cambiaría algunas cosas, de eso no lo dudo, pero antes tendría que pensarlo bien...
Tanto tiempo ;)
dos cosas.
Uno: Empiezo por arriba a leer los blogs desconocidos.
Leo la frase que podriamos llamar epigrafe de tu título. Digo: - AY! me cago el dia. me dijo lo que soy.-
2. Bajo. Leo tu post.- Digo:- Ay. mierda que la gente se puede conectar.-
NAda. quede 0_0
nunca vi muy copado volver atras...
el problema es que a veces idealizamos lo que ya no tenemos
"Recuerdos que mienten un poco (siempre fue asi)"
recomiendo esa cancion
saludos media loca
Es verdad....en el momento parece perfecto...lo más profundo...lo más emotivo..lo mejor...lo más lindo... o lo peor....pero siempre como idea superior.....y cuando seguís...y después le tirás una ojeada......no era así(o por lo menos no lo ves así)....pero lo bueno es darse cuenta!..eso es signo de crecimiento!
Saludos.
PyZ
Es totalmentre cierto, yo ahora me cuasi arrepiento de no haberle dado la bola suficiente a 2 chicas con las que estuve, pero prefiero mantenerlas asi, perfectas...
Muchas veces duele más perder lo que no se llegó a tener nunca que aquello de lo que ya se ha disfrutado...
Wola wapa; llego a tu página de rebote, de leer un comentario en otro blog, ni recuerdo en cual Da lo mismo, lo importante en este caso no es cómo, si no que he llegado Y me ha gustado mucho tu blog y tu manera de tratar las palabras
Suele pasar lo que cuentas Tantas veces que he perdido la cuenta Ocurre porque nos encanta recordar lo positivo del pasado y torturarnos pensando en él y desprestigiando presente y futuro Por eso hace tiempo aprendí a vivir al minuto; ahora lo de ahora Así podremos disfrutar la vida; los buenos momentos y los malos Y seguir el camino que todos buscamos, ese que llega de mil maneras al mismo sitio, a un único sitio; a la felicidad
Muxus linda & Rekuerdos desde el Norte!
a veces no hay que ni volver
pero si, no todo es tan perfecto en nuestro imaginario
Y se acaba el duelo.
Tiempo de seguir adelante.
¡Qué grande! Veo que te vas acercando a la salida del laberinto... ¡no le aflojes!
Besos
www.terceraroca.blogspot.com
a veces ese choque es lo que necesitamos para poder seguir adelante...
porque el pasado siempre lo idealizamos...
Suele ocurrir. de toas formas creo que es es uno el que busca las imperfecciones. Así es más fáil seguir ¿no?
para atras....ni para tomar carrera.
decia mi abuelo
slds
nena, sabias que te amo?? Ahora que por fin terminaste de rendir, nos podemos ver un poco mas! Te extraño!
Y a vos te sale todo bien, no a mi.. :P..
Rosita.. nos vemos..
besos
ah, entonces ya no te atormenta... salú por eso (hic)
Mil veces me pasó, y me va a seguir pasando.
Estoy muy contento porque desde la última vez que entré al blog hasta hoy está mucho más colorido. Y sacaste ese fondo negro para poner uno blanco que seguramente te identifica más.
Finalmente esta entrada demuestra que estás un paso más adelante en tu vida.
Saludos.
Volver atras es una mierda, dale para adelante.
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