† SEDUCIDA Y ABANDONADA †: Al menos por hoy...

Solo esto queda, al menos por hoy. Imágenes descoloridas, fotos recortadas, miradas imborrables. Solo paisajes lejanos, de caminos viejos que recorrimos juntos, o quisimos recorrer algún día. Momentos congelados y fotografiados en mi mente, acaso también en la tuya, momentos de entrega donde aun me cuesta reconocernos, momentos de sinceridad que aun me duelen al ser evocados. Lástima que todo ese amor que sentimos no alcanzara para mantenernos unidos.
Nunca nos hicimos promesas irreales, ni nos juramos amor eterno. Pero no habernos prometido eternidades juntos, no significa que no nos hayamos amado de verdad. Solo que preferimos movernos por caminos seguros, disfrutando el día a día, y sin soñar con cosas - aunque yo secretamente lo haya hecho- que después podrían lastimarnos y crear heridas irreparables al no cumplirse. Así como sabemos que la primavera dura solo unos meses y se termina, sabíamos que aquello que atestaba nuestros corazones tampoco era inmortal. Aunque la ilusión de que, como la primavera, pueda resurgir el amor que tuvimos, me mantiene alerta, y expectante. Y aunque los malos momentos caminaron de nuestra mano, tuvimos otros que aún a la distancia me hacen sonreír, y pensarte. Y si bien solo quedan recuerdos estancados de aquella aventura que vivimos, suelo refugiarme en ellos y recordarte, y recordarnos, cuando necesito un poquito más de fuerza para seguir adelante.

meredith grey dice:

At the end of the day faith is a funny thing. It turns up when you don't really expect it. Its like one day you realize that the fairy tale may be slightly different than you dreamed. The castle, well, it may not be a castle. And its not so important happy ever after, just that its happy right now. See once in a while, once in a blue moon, people will surprise you , and once in a while people may even take your breath away.

Maybe we like the pain. Maybe we're wired that way. Because without it, I don't know; maybe we just wouldn't feel real. What's that saying? Why do I keep hitting myself with a hammer? Because it feels so good when I stop.

I wish there were a rulebook for intimacy. Some kind of guide to tell you when you've crossed the line. It would be nice if you could see it coming, and I don't know how you fit it on a map. You take it where you can get it, and keep it as long as you can. As for rules, maybe there are none. Maybe the rules of intimacy are something we have to define for ourselves

How do you know how much is too much? Too much too soon. Too much information. Too much fun. Too much love, or too much to ask of someone? When is it all just too much for us to bear?

In general, lines are there for a reason. For security, for clarity. If you choose to cross the line, you pretty much do so at your own risk. So why is it that the bigger the line, the greater the temptation to cross it? We cant help ourselves. When we see a line we want to cross it. Maybe it’s the thrill of the unfamiliar, a sort of personal dare. The only problem is once that you’ve crossed, it’s almost impossible to go back. But, if you do manage to make it back across the line, you find safety in numbers.

No matter how hard we try to ignore or deny it, eventually the lies fall away, like it or not. But here's the truth about the truth. It hurts. So we lie.

Communication. It's the first thing we really learn in life. The funny thing is, once we grow up, learn our words and really start talking, the harder it becomes to know what to say. Or how to ask for what we really need.

At the end of the day, there are some things you just can't help but talk about. Some things we just don't want to hear, and some things we say because we can't be silent any longer. Some things are more than what you say. They're what you do. Some things you say because you have no other choice. Some things you keep to yourself. And not too often, but every now and then, some things simply speak for themselves.

At some point you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out; they fence you in. Life is messy, that's how we're made. So you can waste your life drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines that are way too dangerous to cross. Here's what I know, If you're willing to take a chance, the view from the other side is spectacular.

Responsibility, it really does suck. Unfortunately, once you get past the age of braces and training bras, responsibility doesn't go away. It can't be avoided. Either someone makes us face it or we suffer the consequences. And still adulthood has it perks. I mean the shoes, the sex, the no parents anywhere telling you what to do. That's, pretty damn good.

A couple of hundred years ago, Benjamin Franklin shared with the world the secret of his success. “Never leave that till tomorrow,” he said, “Which you can do today.” This is the man who discovered electricity. You’d think more of us would listen to what he had to say. I don’t know why we put things off, but if I had to guess, I’d say it has a lot to do with fear. Fear of failure. Fear of pain. Fear of rejection. Sometimes the fear is just of making a decision, because what if you’re wrong? What if you make a mistake you can’t undo? Whatever it is we're afraid of, one thing holds true: that by the time the pain of not doing the thing gets worse than the fear of doing it, it can feel like we're carrying around a giant tumor...

That knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping. And that even the biggest failure, even the worst most intractable mistake beats the hell out of never trying.

I have an aunt who whenever she poured anything for you she would say "Say when!" My aunt would say "Say when!" and of course, we never did. We don't say when because there's something about the possibility, of more. More tequila, more love, more anything. More is better.

Maybe we're not supposed to be happy. Maybe gratitude has nothing to do with joy. Maybe being grateful means recognizing what you have for what it is. Appreciating small victories. Admiring the struggle it takes simply to be human. Maybe we're thankful for the familiar things we know. And maybe we're thankful for the things we'll never know. At the end of the day, the fact that we have the courage to still be standing is reason enough to celebrate

In general, lines are there for a reason: for security, for clarity. If you choose to cross the line, you pretty much do so at your own risk. So why is it, that the bigger the line, the greater the temptation to cross it? We can’t help ourselves. We see a line, we want to cross it. Maybe it’s the thrill of trading the familiar for the unfamiliar. A sort of personal dare. Only problem is, once you’ve crossed it’s almost impossible to go back. But if you do manage to make it back across that line you find safety in numbers

Some say there’s just some kind of sixth sense, when the great beyond is headed for you, you feel it coming. Whatever it is, it's creepy. Because if you know, what do you do about it? Forget about the fact that you're scared out of your mind. If you knew this was your last day on earth, how would you want to spend it?

Life is not a spectator sport. Win, lose, or draw, the game is on. So go ahead... argue with the ref, change the rules, cheat a little, take a break and tend to your wounds. But play. Play. Play hard, play fast... play loose and free. Play as if there's no tomorrow. Okay, so it's not whether you win or lose, it's how you play the game... right?

A wise man once said – “You can have anything in life if you’re willing to sacrifice everything else for it.” What he meant is nothing comes without a price. So before you go into battle, you better decide how much you’re willing to lose. Too often going after what feels good means letting go of what you know is right. And letting someone in means abandoning the walls you’ve spent a lifetime building. Of course the toughest sacrifices are the ones we don’t see coming. When we don’t have time to come up with a strategy to pick sides….or to measure the potential loss. When that happens, when the battle chooses us, and not the other way around, that’s when the sacrifice can turn out to be more than we can bear.

3 delirios ajenos:

Anónimo dijo...: Otro de lo mismo!!
Muy lindo.. pero muy largo!!
"mi amor x 2"
Vamos capitulo 16!
muchos besos
no te kiero nada!!
Ceci
PD: los codigos HTML son una piii..; 5:20 p.m.
Anónimo dijo...: La verdad qe ni te conozcoo..pero vivo leyendo loqe escribis..me re llegan las cosas qe escribis!! Sos una idolaa nenaa!!..Te comento qe te tengo en favoritoss..jeje re qe ni t conzcoo pero fuee..te tengo igual jaja :P..Mmm..bueno..suerte..no paress de escribirr..por favorr jeje :D..Algunas las leo y lloroo..t juroo..tenes la re imaginacionn :D cosa qe yo nop :S ..pero fuee Jijiji :P..Me voi..suertee,,.segui asii qe vas a tener suerte !! AdioZzz!*

g e u g e z z z *

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Me fui*; 12:08 a.m.
Anónimo dijo...: vengo siguiendo lo que escribis hace tiempo en el fotolog, y sinceramente me FACINA!! ojala escribas mas... y mucha suerte!!
alguien que admira lo q escribis; 9:16 p.m.

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